Assignment 26A- Celebrating Failure
1) I failed at being able to get into UF the first time I applied. I applied to all of the Florida schools, but the one that I was most excited about was UF. I started getting all of the decisions from the other schools but nothing had come in for UF. I applied with a good amount of extra-curricular activities, my GPA was good and my SAT scores were also good. Even though I knew it might be a long shot to get in, it still was very upsetting to get the rejection letter from them. I remember my family telling me that it was going to be ok since I still had options to chose from. But in my mind, I had failed to get into the school that I really wanted to go to. My boyfriend got in a year later than me, and it was really hard to know that we would be doing long distance for a while.
2) I learned that no matter how hard it was for me to accept the fact that I would not be entering UF as a freshman, I still had other options to chose from. I learned that I could still try again, apply as a Junior and I would still be able to graduate from this school. I also learned that while things do not always go as planned, you can still learn from the experience that the other choices that are available to you. Even though I wasn't able to go to this school for my freshman and sophomore year, I was able to experience my first two years of college with my best friend because she was going to the same school as I was.
3) I was very upset when I found out that I hadn't gotten into this school the first time I applied. It felt like I had failed, all those times I had worked really hard during high school to not be able to get into my first choice. I think I have changed how I view failure now since not everything is always going to go the way you want it to. I don't really enjoy taking risks that much but I think that this class has opened up more possibilities for that because of all the assignments where we had to interview people.